Christ Understands: Finding Comfort in His Empathy

As women, we carry so much—responsibilities, emotions, expectations, and sometimes even burdens that feel too heavy to bear. Whether you are a mother balancing the needs of your family, a single woman navigating life’s uncertainties, or a wife striving to build a godly home, there are moments when you feel weary, misunderstood, and alone. In these moments, there is One who truly understands—Jesus Christ.

One of my favorite passages that reminds me of His deep empathy is Hebrews 2:14-17 (AMP):

“Therefore, since [these His] children share in flesh and blood [the physical nature of mankind], He Himself in a similar manner also shared in the same [physical nature, but without sin], so that through [experiencing] death He might make powerless (ineffective, impotent) him who had the power of death—that is, the devil— and [that He] might free all those who through [the haunting] fear of death were held in slavery throughout their lives. For, as we all know, He (Christ) does not take hold of [the fallen] angels [to give them a helping hand], but He does take hold of [the fallen] descendants of Abraham [extending to them His hand of deliverance]. Therefore, it was essential that He had to be made like His brothers (mankind) in every respect, so that He might [by experience] become a merciful and faithful High Priest in things related to God, to make atonement (propitiation) for the people’s sins [thereby wiping away the sin, satisfying divine justice, and providing a way of reconciliation between God and mankind].”

This passage is a beautiful reminder that Jesus didn’t just come to save us—He came to walk in our shoes. He chose to experience life as we do, to understand our struggles from the inside out. He is not distant or unaware of the weight we carry; He intimately knows what it means to suffer, to grieve, to be betrayed, to be exhausted, and to feel alone.

Jesus Knows Physical Pain

There are days when our bodies ache from long hours of work, sleepless nights, or illness. Maybe you’re a mother who barely has time to rest, or you're battling health issues no one fully understands. Jesus knows physical pain:

• He felt hunger after fasting for forty days (Matthew 4:2).
• He was weary from travel and sat down at a well (John 4:6).
• He was beaten and humiliated before His crucifixion (Matthew 27:28-31).
• He experienced thirst on the cross (John 19:28).
• He was physically broken for our sins (Isaiah 52:14).

He understands what it means to endure suffering in a body that grows tired, weak, or overwhelmed.

Jesus Knows Emotional Pain

As women, we often carry deep emotional wounds—loss, rejection, loneliness, and the burdens of caring for others while sometimes feeling unnoticed ourselves. But Jesus understands emotional pain as well:

• He was abandoned by His closest friends when He needed them most (Matthew 26:56).
• He wept at the loss of His dear friend, Lazarus (John 11:35).
• He was misunderstood, even by His own family (Mark 3:21).
• He felt deep sorrow in the Garden of Gethsemane before His crucifixion (Mark 14:33-34).
• He cried out in agony, feeling forsaken on the cross (Matthew 27:46).

If you have ever felt unseen, forgotten, or weighed down by grief, Jesus understands. He has felt it, and He meets you in it.

Pouring Our Hearts Out to the One Who Truly Understands

I have often found myself in moments where I just need someone to talk to—someone who truly understands what I am feeling. The truth is, even the most well-meaning friends or family members don’t always fully grasp the depth of our struggles. But Jesus does.

When the weight of life feels unbearable, I go into my quiet place, close the door, and just talk to Him. I cry, I lay everything at His feet, and I leave it all there. And what I love most is that He always answers.

Sometimes, His comfort comes through Scripture, reminding me of His promises. Other times, it comes through a conversation with someone who speaks exactly what I needed to hear. I have even had moments in church when someone prayed for me, and their words were a confirmation of what was already in my heart. In those moments, I know without a doubt that God sees me.

Approaching the Throne with Confidence

Hebrews 4:16 encourages us with these words:

“Let us then approach God’s throne of grace with confidence, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need.”

Sister, do you realize what that means? It means you don’t have to carry your burdens alone. It means you don’t have to pretend to be strong when you feel weak. It means that Jesus, who walked this earth and experienced every kind of suffering, is right there with you, ready to help.

• If you are feeling overwhelmed, He will strengthen you.
• If you are feeling lonely, He will remind you that you are never alone.
• If you are grieving, He will comfort you.
• If you are struggling with your faith, He will draw near to you.

Final Encouragement: Rest in His Understanding Love

Sister, whatever you are facing today, you are not alone. Jesus understands every tear you cry, every burden you carry, and every moment of exhaustion or heartache. He doesn’t just know about your struggles—He has walked through them Himself.

So today, take a deep breath and remind yourself:
My Savior understands. My Savior cares. My Savior walks with me.

Lean into Him. Talk to Him. Let His presence be your refuge and His love be your strength.

Prayer:
Heavenly Father, thank You for sending Jesus, who understands my struggles, my emotions, and my pain. Thank You that I can come to You just as I am, knowing that You hear me, love me, and walk with me. Help me to rest in Your understanding and to trust in Your unfailing love. In Jesus’ name, Amen.